Faggott Carrots… (spoilers)
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Originally posted by X:
[b]Note: Aside from not being “PC”.. having talked to and known(not in the biblical sense, although my X-girlfriend was gay.. but she didn’t sleep with me so still…) the common view of other people that have flat out told me that this was the way things were… to penetrate another or to have another give you “oral pleasure” would not make you gay, but makes them gay. This is how bi-sexuals and homosexuals distinguish themselves. I guess that’s why guys claiming to be bisexual say they are not gay because they don’t “recieve” or give “oral pleasure” to other guys.. also.. perhaps that is why “gay” men who also sleep with women consider themselves “gay” as opposed to calling themselves “bisexual”.[/b]
WhatwhatWHAT???
Okay, X, your pals have some twisted notions about what constitutes sexual orientation. As a bisexual male, let me set things straight for you (pun *completely* intended)…
Bisexual men have been known to “receive” and “perform.” That is not what makes a person bi or gay. Bisexuals simply have a sexual attraction to both men and women. That’s all. Nothing more, nothing less. Homosexuals have a sexual attraction to those of the same sex. That’s all. There are also gay and straight identified bisexuals, which means that their preferences lean more one way than the other (though I’ve run into more gay-identified bi’s, probably because the stigma against homosexuality is so strong), but that’s irrelevant. To put it succinctly, it’s not about *how* you do it, but about *who* you do it *with*.
–Aleck